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Summary of Question:	sexual affairs
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 10/10/2000 8:03 PM MDT

please this is confidential! i don't want my name listed. thank you

hi, i am a GurSikh and I was just wondering what your views are in bisexuality. i am a heterosexual, i want to marry a man and have his children, but i also feel very strongly towards a particular(s) female. i have a deep spiritual bond with this person. if this girl could be a guy, i would marry him/her. i was wondering what the line is between having attractions of the same sex and possibly bieng bisexual. i wanted to know if it was okay to feel these strong emotions towards this female and at the same time be "normal". this friend of mine also feels very strongly towards me and has hinted that she really cares for me too. i was just wondering where the line has to be drawn and if it is "bad" to feel attracted to the same sex. we flirt and people do sometimes wonder about us, but nothing is between us, sexually i mean. we are all human, regardless of our gender, so i don't see a problem with it. it is just another attachment in my book if you ask me!

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You are right. You are flirting with flirtation. People are so confused today that they have lost the gift of being able to love simply and honestly. It is sad.

Emotional and sexual love is a maya, a trap. Cool it. Reserve it for your spouse and keep your married life sacred and special.