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Summary of Question:	"Meet The Parents"
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 10/24/2000 2:43 PM MDT

hi i'm going through this really hard personal situation and i need your advice....i'm dating this girl for about 3 months and ofcourse our parents don't know about it.....her dad is like really religious and kinda aggressive minded but my girl is really pushing me to ask her parents but i don't think i can do that...i'm so scared of her dad, i see him at temple whenever i go there...and i don't think he's gonna like me....he seems really strict and my image front of her dad isn't that good either...cuz this one time he saw me with my friends front of this night club......i'm only 21, do you think its the right time to get serious about relationships?...cuz i can't even imagine asking her dad about anything....if he ever finds out, he's gonna kill me...yes "kill" me!..thats how scared i am from her dad. What should i do?

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Here are my questions:
1. Is her father a righteous person: honest and honorable? Do you respect him, or only fear him?
2. Are you a righteous person?
3. What are your personal goals and plans for your future? What are your values?
4. Do you have a sexual relationship with this girl?
5. What does she want you to ask her father?
6. What do you want from your relationship with this girl?

If you can give me this information, I will be in a better position to help you.