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Summary of Question:	Needy, Attachment, Reliance On Others
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 11/23/2005 3:23 PM MST

Seaking advice.

How would you advise a person who is very independent and self-supportive to deal with feeling in need of love? I am finding myself far too attached to certain people close to me and I feel almost needy for them.

I do not like this. It's not productive and definately unattractive. In my head I know all I should need is Waheguru but truly my heart is longing for this person who I do not get to see often enough. To be clear - the longing is for a close friend - we are uncommited but exploring the idea of a relationship.

I try to meditate and it helps, but only so much ... I'm not sure what I expect you to say but another point of view would be nice.

WJKK! WJKF!

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Explore the relationship, keeping in mind that it may be your neediness that is attracting you to this person...so be careful and allow the relationship to grow over time. It is normal to want to bond with another person...especially someone who can be a compliment and in a long-term committed relationship. Let us know how you are doing. Blessings. GTKK