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Summary of Question:	Reply To Love
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 1/08/2003 12:00 AM MST

Hi, this is a reply to the person who with the subject love - (They wrote: All I want out of life is love and happiness. I feel as though I am being punished. I had so much love in my life and I must admit I didn't appreciate it. Now though I feel like I dont have anything to live for anymore. Everyone around me is unhappy also).

My friend. All i want to say is...........you're not alone. I had such a wonderful love in my life too, for this person, (now) i would do anything to be with them. I never appreciated as well. at all. to such an extent, no one could imagine. when i realised how much i loved them, it was too late. it still is. I wake up every morning hoping i will die. thought about suicide as well. still do. But u want to know something. Im not the only one as well. I know at least 10 ppl who a hurt because of life and its actions.

During this time, we forget other things. Our family, who love us all the time. Our friends, who help us during hard times. The ONE CREATOR, who is watching. Everything happens for a reason. Just remember, some things are not in our control. This is what humans have names life. We have Karma to pay for, dont lose faith. Ever heard of Newtons law( i think it was newton), every action has an equal an opposite reaction.

Everything happens for a reason, whatever happened to you would be for a reason, whatever happened to me, and (i assure u) alot of other ppl in the world, is for a reason, but this doesnt mean we forget the lesson.

Think of it this way........if you believe in love, u must believe it is unconditional (u might disagree with me, but i think so).No matter what u do, you mother will always love u, no matter what you do, Our God will always love us.Maybe the love u lost.........never really loved you in the first place. They may have said it (Sorry, im assuming its a person who hurt u, cuz only man can be so stupid). They may have thought they loved u, they may have said it, but ask ureself......where are they. If thier not with u, cuz of some excuse they make, then no, the never loved u (like i said, love is unconditional, theres no "if's and but's", cuz to u, u love them, no matter what), so why cry over someone who doesnt care for you.let it go, i know its harder to say then do (cuz personally, i cant let it go, but im trying). but try.U might think GOD is not there right now, i sometimes do too, but i know, cuz i believe, he is. hes watching. This time will pass. You will live again. you will love again.

just wait an see, and let God guide you, ask him for help and strength. I hope this helps you, and i hope i didnt say anything which may have caused u any pain (i've done bad karma, dont want more). take care
and remember, he will always help you, all you have to do is believe.

if you feel like telling someone your story, someone you most probably will never meet, make a new friend. email me, my email is chotabacha4u@hotmail.com. Otherwise, i wish for you, love, hope, happiness and strength, take care.