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| Summary of Question: | Re. Waheguru's Bhana Or My Ego |
| Category: | Love & Marriage |
| Date Posted: | Thursday, 12/05/2002 9:45 AM MST |
I am an adult and feel for this girl and I wish you could give her my email address so I can talk to her.I have been in a situation like hers (only that I was not in love and I was used),but as I had always been a religious girl so I did leave it on waheguru and thought it was a past karma that I had to finish up.This really consoled my inner soul(even though it does hurt at times) but I did not give up praying and my faith in God.Rather my faith grew stronger.I think it was because of my faith that God had the appropriate man for me and he is the greatest and understands me.I hide nothing from him and he is my best friend/husband so I got him out of my continuous prayers and faith. So, do not worry girl, the right man has already been chosen my Waheguru for you and wait for him. Use this experience of yours to guide other young ones and this will really make you happy within (and that is the goal).Stress does nothing but make you very unproductive/unhealthy/not confident and you might endup making more mistakes.Think very rationally and even if he tries to come back to you be strong to go on.Make decisions with your head and Guru in mind and not heart, you will always win in the last run. You are too young and have a life to live, do not waste in things like this. everytime your heart aches or guilt comes in say "SATNAM WAHEGURU" or recite the mool mantra until you feel calm inside(this is what I still do). These kind of memories do not leave a person but the beauty is to learn how to handle it and keep going on in life w/o guilt or pain.I will do a special Ardas tonight for you (who-so-ever you are) as my heart goes out for you.
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Thanks for sharing your experience and your wisdom with the other Sikh Youth.
Re. Waheguru's Bhana Or My Ego (12/05/2002)