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Summary of Question:	Is Friending With Boy A Big Mistake?
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 4/23/2003 2:05 AM MDT

Sat Sri Akaal,

I am a girl and i love mixing up with boys but my parents doesnt allow me.In school,most of my friends are boys and all of them mix up well with me.Whenever they call the house,my MOM always think that i have relationship with that guy example like he is my boyfriend and that make us mother daughter always fight!my sister another busybody tells my mother everything about me and that makes me very very angry...i dont get any freedom!if i am in gurdwara,at the langgar time i will be with my friend(girls)and when i come back i will hear a long lecture where she tell me that why i must friend her.....is that any mistake friending with girls....i am hoping ypur reply soon...
May WAHEGURU give me a advice!
WJKK&WJKF
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Greetings and blessings to you.
You must be very gracious and grateful to your Mom for caring. Try to see your mother's view and respect her for that.

Being free with boys is not really very important to your life. Think of yourself as a princess of great great value. Cherish yourself. Be priceless and self composed. Take this time in your young life to find your own personal intersts and hobbies. Talking and socializing with boys is a form of flirtation. If boys are attracted to you does not mean that you must give them all your attention and interest. Be more aloof and learn to be more wise.

Spend some time with your Mom and have a deep and friendly discussion about the ways of men and woman from her life experience. Ask her about her life and her loves. This could be a very special connection for you and your Mom. Give it the chance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

God bless you to go deep deep into the meditation of your soul and beauty.
SKKK