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Summary of Question:	Sex Before Marriage But After Engagement
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Saturday, 7/30/2005 8:03 PM MDT

Hello i would just like to address the penji (sonia) with regard to this topic. penji, first of all i would like to clarify that im not against you in any way what so ever, but i would just like to give you something to think about....im sure you both may have thought and discussed the topic of any children? i just wana take an opportunity to point out that although many people may think that their children may benefit from both faiths..well this is a bit of a preconception... because not only will your child have no defined identity, but your faith (what you stand by now and forever) will be diluted if your kind of behaviour is going on. every sikh has the blessings of the guru through the teachings to be able to acknowledge and repect other faiths and so any mix marriage doesnt enhance this is anyway, i feel this kind of behaviour is a little selfish and i pray that you will make the right decision according to your sikhi.

please please dont feel like im against you personally i believe that any sikh whether it be man or women should take a moment to think about our sikhi its history its teachings which have given us the blessing to walk out on to the street and stand proud as sikhs.

bhul chuk di marf