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Summary of Question:	Is It Right To Love A Hindu Girl Who Has A Boyfriend
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Saturday, 12/25/2004 12:07 AM MST

ssa

i'm a 18 yr old gursikh guy .i'm in love with a hindu frnd of mine for the last 2 years. we r very gud frnds..but the problem is that she's having a boyfrnd..due 2 this i get depressed ...how shd i overcome this feeling ????SHD I GO N TEL HER WAT I FEEL FOR HER SO THAT I CUD KNOW WAT SHE FEELS FOR ME......OR SHD I REMAIN FRNDS WITH HER????????
WJKK
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Sat nam. Seems to me that you need to let go of your attachment to her. But, the choice is yours. Think of the consequences and what you are really trying to achieve by telling her, or not. The other thing to consider is this: do you have any REAL hope of being with her or marrying her, since she is not Sikh? There are hundreds of posts in this youth forum about youth in love with people from other castes or religions and the hassles and fears they deal with. Read some of them, and perhaps this will inform your decision. Guru ang sang,
-DK