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Summary of Question:	I Really Like Him, Cant Stop Thinking About Him At All
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 10/16/2002 12:15 AM MDT

WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA, WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH

Sorry but i have another question. You guys are doing great helping us out like this. May God bless you all.

Well here it is my problem.

There is this guy i really like him alot.He said he liked me too, but after we kissed he even said i love u to me when i asked him but then i told him that i felt bad about what happened he stopped liking me at all I think i am in love with him. I keep thinking of him. His face comes in front of my eyes when i am studying, sitting down, attending my lecture, walking, eating, sleeping, after i wake up i say Waheguru Ji, and then he is infront of my eyes and on my mind again. His face. I feel so strongly for him. ive lost contact with him because we had some arguments and he just didnt want to talk to me after that. He just tells me to leave him alone. I c him at my gurdwara, and when i do, i feel like i wanna go up to him and get on my knees, hold his hand and cry. But he just ignores me, just like that. Im into religion and well he isnt so much but he has long hair and wears a patka. I care for him so much, and he just doesnt wanna know me. It hurts when i cant get him out of my mind. I feel like he is my other half, this is how strongly i feel for him. I am going to be baptised soon ( amrit chukkna) and well i still love this guy. Is this love or some crazy infatuation?

do u think if i do SHABAD HAZARAY path everyday, do u think i will get him from God? ive heard that by doing that path, u will never be separated from your beloved. Do u think i will get him? I want to treasure him, and i have never felt nething like this for nebody becuz he was the first to ever touch me. Do u think this will work?

and one more question, nowdays sometimes when im sitting around or doin somthing, i keep seeing these instant sparks, like white light sparks that come and go. see like i have seen three of them since i started writing this letter. I have also noticed that when i stop doing path for a few days i cant see these sparks anymore like im missing them or somthing, and when i do my path regularly i see them appear and then disappear. they r the size of 5 fullstps put together. Can u please tell me wat is goin on wid my sparks and with my love?

THANKYOU SO MUCH
GUR KI FATEH
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This young man is not very sincere and you are better off that he has left you alone.

By kissing him so deeply, you opened up your aura and your grace to him. Sounds like he was just wanting to "get some action from you". You backed off from his advances so he dropped you. But your pain is that you opened up your grace to him. Women are very vulnerable. Better not to let any man into your aura until it is your husband. The feelings that you activated are emotions that you are mistaking for love. Better to reserve these feelings for you husband.His flattery of you was effective to get you going. Be more careful.

Now, that you have had this experience, you know how painful it can be to open yourself to someone not really committed to loving you. You are a girl of values. Treat yourself with great value and do not give yourself away so easily. Be priceless and do not loose yourself to someone for just a kiss.

Practice love and repect for yourself. Honor your grace and see yourself as a true Princess of the Guru, daughter of the Guru. Do not chase after any man. Let some man of true character be attracted to you. This will happen, by the grace of God and Guru.

It is always great to recite "Shabd Hazare". It will bring grace to your life. I would not suggest doing it to try to get some guy though. Just do it sincerely to have God always keep love and beloveds in your life.

I do not know what the "specks" are that you are referring to. Perhaps they are the way your soul thanks you for feeding it "Path" every day.
God bless you,
SKKK